Alternative Lifestyle:

Baker, R. R.  (1996). Sperm Wars: Infidelity, Sexual Conflict and other Bedroom  Battles. Fourth Estate.

Barash, D.  P. & Lipton, J. E. Lipton. (2001).  Myth of Monogamy: Fidelity and Infidelity in Animals and People. W. H. Freeman & Co.

Betzig, L. L. (1986). Despotism and Differential Reproduction: A Darwinian View of History.  Aldine De Gruyter.

Birkhead, T. R. (2000). Promiscuity: An Evolutionary History of Sperm Competition. Boston: Harvard University Press.

Buss, D. M. (1994). The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating.  New York: BasicBooks

Daly, M. & Wilson,  M.   (19781). Sex, Evolution, and Behavior Adaptations for Reproduction.  North Scituate, MA: Duxbury Press

Easton, D. & Liszt, C. A. (1995). The Topping Book: Or Getting Good at Being Bad.  San Francisco: Greenery Pressjavascript:void(0)

Easton, D. & Liszt, C. A. (1997). The Ethical Slut. San Francisco: Greenery Press

Easton, D. & Liszt, C. A. (2000).  When Someone You Love is Kinky.  San Francisco: Greenery Press

Fisher, H. E.  (1992). Anatomy of Love: The Natural History of Monogamy, Adultery, and Divorce.  New York: W.W. Norton and Company, Inc

Hrdy, S.  & Blaffer. (1999).  The Woman That Never Evolved.  Boston: Harvard University Press

Miller, G. F.  (2000). The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature. New York: Doubleday.

Moser, C. (1999). Health care Without Shame: A Handbook for the Sexually Diverse and Their Caregivers. San Francisco, CA: Greenery Press.

Ridley, M. (1993).  The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature.  New York: Macmillan Publishing Co.

Small, M. (1995).  What’s Love Got to Do With It?  The Evolution of Human Mating.  New York: Anchor

Strean, H. S. (2000). The Extramarital Affair. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson.

Wright, R. (1994).  The Moral Animal: The New Science of Evolutionary Psychology.  New York: Pantheon Books.

 

Anger Management:

Brazelton, T. Berry, (1984). To listen to a child: Understanding the normal problems of growing up. Adison-Wesley Publishing Company: California.

McKay, M, Fanning, P, Paleg, K, & Landis, D (1996).  When Anger Hurts Your Kids: A parent’s Guide. New York: MJF Books.

Nuckols, C. & Chickering, B. (1998) Healing an Angry Heart: Finding Solace in a Hostile World.Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

Gorski, T. & Miller, M. (1981).  The management of aggression and violence: A field manual for emergency, medical, enforcement, psychiatric, and detoxification personnel.  Hazel Crest, IL: Human Ecology Systems, Inc.

Letson, T. (1998).  4 Downs to Anger Control: Control Anger and Strengthen Character with Football Concepts and Principles. Freehold, NJ: Finish Line Press.

 

Cartoon Animal Humor/Recovery:

Bissell, L. & Watherwax, R. (1982).  The cat who drank too much. Bantam, CT: Bibulophile Press.

Cader, Michael (1993). Meditations for Cats who do too much: Learning to take things one Life at a time. New York:Penguin Books USA, Inc.

Clarke, Jacqueline (1997).  NATHAN: The spiritual journey of the uncommon cat.  Falls Church, VA: MATOU Commnications.

Sellers, Ronnie & Reinhart, Jennifer (1995).  The Official Cat Codependents Handbook. Kennebunk, ME: Ronnie Sellers Productions.

  

Child Development & Sexuality:

Bass, E. & Kaufman, K. (1992). Free Your Mind: The Book for Gay Lesbian and Bisexual Youth and Their Allies. Santa Cruz, CA: HarperPerennial.

Brazelton, T. Berry, (1984). To listen to a child: Understanding the normal problems of growing up. Adison-Wesley Publishing Company: California.

Furman, I. (1998).  Needs,Urges, and feelings in early childhood.  Madison, CT: International Universities Press.

Gil, E. (1996). Treating Abused Adolescents. New York: Guilford Press.

Golumb, E. (1992).  Trapped in the mirror: Adult Children of Narcissists in their struggle for self.  New York, NY: Wm Morrow & Company, Inc.

Levine, Judith, (2002). Harmful to minors: the perils of protecting children from sex. University of Minnesota Press: Minneapolis, MN.

McCann, J. T. (2001). Stalking in Children and Adolescents: The Primitive Bond.  Washington DC.: American Psychological Association Press.

Miller, T. W. (ed.). (1988). Children of Trauma: Stressful Life Events and their effects on children  and adolescents. Madison, CT: International Universities Press.

Offit, A. (1995).  The Sexual Self: How Character Shapes Sexual Experience (Revised Ed.). Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson, Inc.

Ryce-Menuhin, J. (1988). The Self in Early Childhood. London: Free Association Books

Sullivan, D. & Everstine, L. (1989). Sexual Trauma in Children and Adolescents: Dynamics and Treatment.New York: Brunner/Mazel.

Ulrich Tobias, Cynthia, (1999). You can't make me, but I can be persuaded: Strategies for bringing out the best in your strong-willed child. Watermark Press: Colorado Springs, Co.

 

Codependency Resources:

Beattie, M. (1992).  Codependent no more: How to stop controlling others and start caring or yourself. Center City, MN: Hazeldon Educational Materials

Schaffer, B. (1991).  Loving me, Loving you: Balancing Love and Power in a Codependent World.  USA: Hazeldon Publishers.

 

Countertransference Issues – for Professionals:

Giovacchini, P. L. (1989).  Countertransference triumphs and catastrophes. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson, Inc.

Gold, J. H. & Nemiah, J. C. (Eds.).  (1993).  Beyond Transference: When the therapist’s real life intrudes. Washington, DC: American Psychiatric Press, Inc.

Grunebaum, H. (1993).  The vulnerable therapist: On being ill or injured.  In J. H. Gold &    J. C. Nemiah  (Eds.).  Beyond Transference: When the therapist’s real life intrudes (pp. 21-50). Washington, DC: American Psychiatric Press, Inc.

Josephs, L. (1995).  Balancing Empathy and Interpretation: Relational Character Analysis. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson Inc.

Nadelson, C. C. (1993).  The therapist’s absences. In J. H. Gold &    J. C. Nemiah  (Eds.). Beyond Transference: When the therapist’s real life intrudes (pp. 21-50). Washington, DC:American Psychiatric Press, Inc.

Natterson, J. (1991).  Beyond countertransference: The therapist’s subjectivity in the therapeutic process.  Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson, Inc.

Notman, M. T. (1993).  Countertransference reactions to a patient’s sexual encounter with a previous therapist.  In J. H. Gold &    J. C.  Nemiah  (Eds.).  Beyond Transference: When the therapist’s real life intrudes (pp. 21-50).  Washington, DC: American Psychiatric Press, Inc.

Robertiello, R. C. & Schoenewolf, G. (1987).  101 Common therapeutic blunders: Countertransference and counterresistance in psychotherapy.  Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson.

Sussman, M. B. (1992).  A curious calling: Unconscious motivations for practicing psychotherapy.  Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson.

Wells, J. K. & Wrye, H. K.  (1994). The narration of desire: Erotic transferences and countertransferences.  Hillsdale, NJ: The Analytic Press.

 

Domestic Violence:

Elliott, M. (1993). Female Sexual Abuse of Children. New York: Guilford Press.

Felson, R. B. (2002). Violence & Gender Reexamined. Washington DC., American Psychological Association Press.

Hamberger, L. K. & Renzetti, C., (1996).  Domestic Partner Violence. New York: Springer Publishing Co.

  

Family Therapy & Parenting Issues:

Adams, K. (1991). Silently Seduced: When Parents make their Children Partners.  Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

Barret, R. L., & Robinson, B. E. (1990).  Gay fathers.   Lexington, MA: D. C. Heath & Co.

Brazelton, T. Berry, (1984). To listen to a child: Understanding the normal problems of growing up. Adison-Wesley Publishing Company: California.

Dew, R. F. (1994).  The family heart: A memoir of when our son came out.  New York:Addison-Wesley Publishing, Co.

Fairchild, B., & Haward, N. (1989).  Now that you know: What every parent should know about homosexuality. (Revised). New York: Harcourt Brace.

Forward, S. (1989).  Toxic Parents: Overcoming their hurtful legacy and reclaiming your life. New York, NY: Bantam Books.

Fossum, M.A., & Mason, M. J. (1986).  Facing Shame: Families in Recovery. .New York, NY:. Norton & Company.

Hunter, M. (1992).  Joyous Sexuality: Healing from the Effects of Family Sexual Dysfunction. Minneapolis, MN: CompCare Publishers.

Landry, D. B. (1991).  Family Fallout: A handbook for families of adult sexual abuse survivors. Orwell, VT: Safer Society Press.

Levine, Judith, (2002). Harmful to minors: the perils of protecting children from sex. University of Minnesota Press: Minneapolis, MN.

Martin, A. (1993).  The lesbian and gay parenting handbook.  New York: Harper Publications.

McKay, M, Fanning, P, Paleg, K, & Landis, D (1996).  When Anger Hurts Your Kids: A parent’s Guide. New York: MJF Books.

Ulrich Tobias, Cynthia, (1999). You can't make me, but I can be persuaded: Strategies for bringing out the best in your strong-willed child. Watermark Press: Colorado Springs, Co.

  

 Forensic/Legal References:

Ceci, S. J., & Hembrooke, H. Eds. (1998). Expert Witness in Child Abuse: What can and should be said in court. Washington DC: American Psychological Association Press  

Knapp, S. J., & VandeCreek, L. (1997). Treating Patients with Memories of Abuse: Legal Risk Management. Washington, DC: American Psychological Association Press.

 

Gender & Gender Identity Issues:

Coleman, E. (Ed.). (1988).  Integrated identity for gay men and lesbians: Therapeutic approaches for emotional well-being.  New York: Harrington Press.

D’Augell, A., & Patterson, C. J. (Eds.). (1992).  Lesbian, gay, and bisexual identities over the lifespan.  New York: Oxford University Press.

Isay, R.A. (1989). Being Homosexual: Gay men and their development.  New York: Farrar, Straus, & Giroux.

McNaught, B. (1988).  On being gay.  New York: St, Martins Press.

Steinberg, W. (1993).  Masculinity: Identity conflict and transformation.  London: Shambhala Publications.

Woodman, M. (1990). The Ravaged Bridegroom: Masculinity in Women. Canada: Inner City Books.

 

Humor/Recovery:

Bissell, L. & Watherwax, R. (1982).  The cat who drank too much. Bantam, CT: Bibulophile Press.

Cader, Michael (1993). Meditations for Cats who do too much: Learning to take things one Life at a time.  New York:: Penguin Books USA, Inc.

Clarke, Jacqueline (1997).  NATHAN: The spiritual journey of the uncommon cat.  Falls Church, VA: MATOU Communications.

Joannides, P. (2000). Guide to Getting it on. Waldport, OR: Goofy Foot Press.

Sellers, Ronnie & Reinhart, Jennifer (1995).  The Official Cat Codependents Handbook. Kennebunk, ME: Ronnie Sellers Productions.

 

Intimacy & Relationship Issues:

Beattie, M. (1992).  Codependent no more: How to stop controlling others and start caring or yourself. Center City, MN: Hazeldon Educational Materials.

Berzon, B. (1996). The Intimacy Dance: A Guide to Long-term Success in Gay and Lesbian Relationships. New York, NY: The Penguin Group.

Brown, P. (1995). The Death of Intimacy: Barriers to Meaningful Interpersonal Relationships. New York: The Haworth Press, Inc.

Dieda, David (1995).  Intimate Communion: Awakening Your Sexual Essence. Deerfield Bch, FL: Health Communications, Inc

Kasl, Charlotte (1997).  A Home for the Heart: A Practical Guide to Intimate & Social Relationships. New York, NY: HarperCollins Books.

Lazarus, A. A. (1985).  Marital Myths: Two dozen Mistaken Beliefs that Can Ruin A Marriage or Make a Bad One Worse.   San Luis Obispo, CA: Impact Publishers.

Luhrs, J. (2000). Simple Loving: Using the Principles of Simplicity to Create a More Loving Passionate and Fulfilling Life for Yourself, with Your Partner, and With Your Family. New York: NY: Penguin Putnam group, Inc.

Petersen, J.A. (1991).  The Myth of the Greener Grass. Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.

Schaffer, B. (1991).  Loving me, Loving you: Balancing Love and Power in a Codependent World.  USA: Hazeldon Publishers.

Sherven, J. & Sniechowski, J. (1997).  The New Intimacy: Discovering the Magic at the Heart of Your Differences. Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

Strean, H. S. (2000). The Extramarital Affair. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson.

Vaughn, P. (1998).  The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs. New York, NY: Newmark Press.

 

LBGTQI Issues:

Alexander, C. J. (1996). Gay and lesbian mental health.  New York: Harrington Park Press.

Barret, R. L., & Robinson, B. E. (1990).  Gay fathers.   Lexington, MA: D. C. Heath & Co.

Bass, E. & Kaufman, K. (1992). Free Your Mind: The Book for Gay Lesbian and Bisexual Youth and Their Allies. Santa Cruz, CA: HarperPerennial.

Bell, A. & Weinberg, M. (1978).  Homosexualities: A study of diversity among men and women. New York: Simon & Schuster.

Berzon, B. (1992). Positively gay.  Berkeley: Celestial Arts Press.

Berzon, B. (1996). The Intimacy Dance: A Guide to Long-term Success in Gay and Lesbian Relationships. New York, NY: The Penguin Group.

Breymer, L. (1996). Meeting the guidance and counseling needs of boys. Alexandria VA: American Counseling Association.

Cabaj. R. P., & Stein, T. S. (Eds). (1996).  Textbook of homosexuality and mental health. Washington, DC:American Psychiatric Press

Carter, J. (1996).  The homo handbook: Getting in tough with your inner homo.  New York: Fireside Books.

Clark, D. (1997).  Loving someone gay. (Revised) Berkeley: Celestial Arts Press.

Coleman, E. (Ed.). (1988).  Integrated identity for gay men and lesbians: Therapeutic approaches for emotional well-being.  New York: Harrington Press.

Constantine-Simms, D. (Ed). (2000). The Greatest Taboo: Homosexuality in Black Communities. Los Angeles, CA: Alyson Publications.

Cornett, C. (Ed.),  (1993). Affirmative dynamic psychotherapy with gay men. Northvale, NJ:PA: Jason Aronson, Inc.

Crawford, D. (1990). Easing the ache: Gay men recovering from compulsive behaviors. New York: Penguin Books.

D’Augell, A., & Patterson, C. J. (Eds.). (1992).  Lesbian, gay, and bisexual identities over the lifespan.  New York: Oxford University Press.

Dew, R. F. (1994).  The family heart: A memoir of when our son came out.  New York:Addison-Wesley Publishing, Co.

Diggs, J. H., & Finn, S..E. (1991). Intimacy between men. New York: Plume.

Downing, C. (1990). Myths and mysteries of same-sex love.  New York: Continuum.

Dworkin, S. H., & Guiterrez, F. J. (Eds.). (1992).  Counseling gay men and lesbians: Journey to the end of the rainbow. Alexandria, VA: American Counseling Association.

Eichberg, R. (1990). Coming out: An act of love.  New York: Penguin Books.

Evans, N. J., & Wall, V. A. (1991).  Beyond Tolerance: Gays, lesbians, bisexuals, on campus. Lanham, MD: American College Personnel Association.

Fairchild, B., & Haward, N. (1989).  Now that you know: What every parent should know about homosexuality. (Revised). New York: Harcourt Brace.

Falco, K. L. (1991). Psychotherapy with lesbian clients: Theory into practice.  New York:Brunner/Mazel Publishers.

Gelberg, S., & Chojnacki, J. T. (1996).   Career and life planning with gay, lesbian, and bisexual persons. Alexandria, VA: American Counseling Association.

Goldstone, S. E. (1999). The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex: A Medical Handbook for Men. New York, NY:Dell Publishing.

Gonsiorek, J.C., & Weinrich, J. D., (Eds.). (1991).  Homosexuality: Research implications forpublic policy. Newbury Park, CA: Sage Publications.

Hamberger, L. K. & Renzetti, C., (1996).  Domestic Partner Violence. New York: Springer Publishing Co.

Harbeck, K. M. (Ed.). (1991).  Coming out of the classroom closet.  Binghamton, NY: Harrington Park.

Hardin, K. N,. (1999). The Gay and Lesbian Self-Esteem Book: A Guide to Loving Oursleves. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications.

Hill, I. (Ed.). (1987). The bisexual spouse.  New York: Harper & Row Publishers.

Hopcke, R. (1991). Jung, Jungians and homosexuality. Boston: Shambhala Publications.

Isay, R.A. (1989). Being Homosexual: Gay men and their development.  New York: Farrar, Straus, & Giroux

Kain, C. D. (1996).  Positive: HIV affirmative counseling.  Alexandria, VA: American Counseling Association

Kalichman, S. C. (1996).  Answering your questions about AIDS.  Wathington, DC: American Psychological Association.

Levine, Judith, (2002). Harmful to minors: the perils of protecting children from sex. University of Minnesota Press: Minneapolis, MN.

Lewes, K. (1988). The psychoanalytic theory of male homosexuality.  New York: Meridian Books.

Mallon, G. (Ed.). (1998).  Foundations of social work: Practice with lesbian and gay persons.New York: Harrington Park Press.

Marcus, E. (1988). The male couple’s guide to living together.  New York: Harper & Row.

Marcus, E. (1993).  Is it a choice?: Answers to 300 most frequently asked questions about gays and lesbians. New York: Harper collins Publishers.

Martelli, L. J., Peltz, F. D., Messina, W., & Petrow, S. (1993).  When someone you know has AIDS: A practical guide.  New York: Crown Trade Paperbacks.

Martin, A. E., & Hawkins, R. O. (1982).  Counseling lesbian women and gay men: A life-issues approach. New York: C.V. Mosby Co.

Martin, A. (1993).  The lesbian and gay parenting handbook.  New York: Harper Publications.

McNaught, B. (1988).  On being gay.  New York: St, Martins Press.

Michael, r. T., Gagon, J. H, Laumann, E. O., & Kolata, G. (1994).  Sex in America: A definitive survey.  New York: Little, Brown & Co.

Piazza, M. (1994). Holy homosexuals: the truth about being gay and Christian.  Dallas, TX:Sources of Hope Publishing House.

Preston, J. (1991).  The big gay book: A man’s survival guide for the 90's.  New York: Plume.Rogers, C. R. (1961). On becoming a person. Boston: Houghton, Mifflin Co.

Rothblum, E. D., & Bond, L. A. (1996).  Preventing heterosexism and homophobia.  Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage Press.

 Savin-Williams, R. C. (1990).  Gay and lesbian youth: Expressions of identity.  New York:Hemisphere Publishing Co.  New York: Penguin Books.

Siegal, S. & Lowe, E. (1994).  Uncharted lives: Understanding the life passages of gay men.

Silverstein, C. & Picano, F. (1992).  The new joy of gay sex. New York: Harper Collins

Spencer, C. (1995). Homosexuality: A history. London: Fourth Estate Edition.

Stein, T. S. & Cohen, C. J. (Eds.). (1986).  Contemporary perspective on psychotherapy with lesbians and gay men.  New York: Plenum Medical Book Co.

Tasker, F.L, & Golombok, S. (1997). Growing up in a Lesbian Family: Effects on child development. New York: NY: The Gilford Press.

Tannhill, R. (1992).  Sex in history. London: Scarborough House.

Tessina, T. (1989). Gay relationships: How to find them, how to improve them, how to make them last.. New York: G/ P/ Putnam.’s Sons.

Willhoite, M. (1990).  Daddy’s roommate.  Boston: Alyson Publications, Inc.

 

Love/ Relationship Addiction:

Carnes, P. 1997).  The Betrayal Bond: Breaking Free of Exploitive Relationships.  Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

Carnes, P. (1997).  Sexual Anorexial: Overcoming Sexual Self-Hatred Center City, MN: Hazeldon.

Covington, S. & Beckett, L. (1988).  Leaving the enchanted forest: The path from relationship addiction to intimacy.  San Francisco, CA: HarperCollins Publishers.

Crawford, D. (1990). Easing the ache: Gay men recovering from compulsive behaviors. New York: Penguin Books.

Hunter, M. (1992).  Joyous Sexuality: Healing from the effects of family sexual dysfunction. Minneapolis, MN: CompCare Publishers

Kasl, Charlotte (1989) Women Sex and Addiction.  New York: NY: Harper & Row, Inc.

Levine, Judith, (2002). Harmful to minors: the perils of protecting children from sex. University of Minnesota Press: Minneapolis, MN.

May, G. G. (1988).  Addiction and grace: Love & Spirituality in the healing of addictions. New York, NY: HarperCollins Publishers.

Mellody, P. (1992).  Facing Love addiction: Giving yourself the power to change the way you love.  New York, NY: HarperCollins Publishers.

Schaffer, B. (1986). Love Addiction: Help Yourself Out. USA: Hazeldon Educational Materials.

Schaffer, B. (1986). Power Plays. USA: Hazeldon Educational Materials

Schaffer, B. (1986). Signs of addictive Love. USA: Hazeldon Educational Materials

Schaffer, B. (1986). Signs of Healthy Love. USA: Hazeldon Educational Materials.

Schaffer, B. (1997).  Is it Love or Is it Addiction?  (2nd Edition).  Center City, MN: Hazeldon.

Schneider, J. & Schneider, B. (1991).  Sex, Lies, and Forgiveness.  Couples speaking our on Healing from Sex Addiction.  New York: NY: HarperCollins Publishers.

Whitfield, C. (1993).  Boundaries and Relationships: Knowing, Protecting and Enjoying the Self. Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

Weiss, W. & DeBusk, D. (1993).  Women who Love Sex addicts: Help for healing from the effects of a relationship with a sex addicts. Fort Worth, TX: Discovery Press.

 

 Men’s Issues:

Barret, R. L., & Robinson, B. E. (1990).  Gay fathers.   Lexington, MA: D. C. Heath & Co.

Bear, E. & Dimock, P. (1988).  Adults Molested as Children: A survivor’s manual for Women & Men.Orwell, VT: Safer Society Press.

Colona, S. (2000). The Secrets to Pleasuring a Woman. Hollywood, FL: Frederick Fell Publishers.

Estrada, H. (1994). Recovery for Male Victims of Child Sexual Abuse. Sante Fe, NM: Red Rabbit Press.

Goldstone, S. E. (1999). The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex: A Medical Handbook for Men. New York, NY: Dell Publishing.

Isay, R.A. (1989). Being Homosexual: Gay men and their development.  New York: Farrar, Straus, & Giroux.

Lee, C. & Ownes, R. G. (2002).  The Psychology of Men’s Health. Philadelphia, PA: Open University Press.

Lee, John (1987).  The Flying Boy: Healing the Wounded Man. Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

Nice, S. & Forrest, R. (1990).  Childhood Sexual Abuse: A Survivor’s Guide for Men. USA: Hazeldon Educational Materials.

 

Parenting Issues:

Adams, K. (1991). Silently Seduced: When Parents make their Children Partners.  Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

Brazelton, T. Berry, (1984). To listen to a child: Understanding the normal problems of growing up. Adison-Wesley Publishing Company: California.

McKay, M, Fanning, P, Paleg, K, & Landis, D (1996).  When Anger Hurts Your Kids: A parent’s Guide. New York: MJF Books.

Forward, S. (1989).  Toxic Parents: Overcoming their hurtful legacy and reclaiming your life. New York, NY: Bantam Books.

 

PTSD Issues:

Bass, E, & Davis, L. (1988). The Courage to Heal.. New Yprk, NY: Harper & Row    

Courtois, C. (1988). Healing the Incest Wound: Adult Survivors in Therapy. New York: Norton    

Davis, Laura  (1991). Allies in Healing: When the Person You Love Was Sexually Abused as a Child.. HarperPerennial

Figley, C. (1995). Those Who Treat the Traumatized. Brunner-Mazel.

Finkelhor, David (1984). Child Sexual Abuse: New Theory & Research. Free Press

Finkelhor, D. Gelles, R. J., Hotaling, G. T., & Straus, M. A. eds. (1983). The Dark Side of Families: Current Family Violence Research.Beverly Hills, CA: Sage.

Helmreich, William B. (1992). Against All Odds: Holocaust Survivors and the Successful Lives They Made in America. Simon and Schuster.

Rush, Florence (1980). The Best Kept Secret: Sexual Abuse of Children.. Prentice Hall  

Hotaling, G. T., Finkelhor, D. Kirkpatrick, J. T., & Straus,  M. A. eds. (1981). Family Abuse and its Consequences: New Directions and Research..Beverly Hills: Sage

Hotaling, G.T.,  Finkelhor, D., Kirkpatrick, J. T., & Straus, M. A, Eds. (1988). Compassion Fatigue: Coping with Secondary Traumatic Stress Disorder in Coping with Family Violence: Research and Policy Perspectives. Beverly Hills.

Kluft, R. P.  (1985). Childhood Antecedents of Multiple Personality. New York: American Psychiatric Press

Kluft, R. P. & Catherine G. Fine, C. G. (1993). Clinical Perspectives on Multiple Personality Disorder. New York:American Psychiatric Press.

Levine, Judith, (2002). Harmful to minors: the perils of protecting children from sex. University of Minnesota Press: Minneapolis, MN.

Lew, M. (1990). Victims No Longer: Men Recovering from Incest and Other Sexual Child Abuse. Harper & Row

Putnam, F. W. (1989). Diagnosis and Treatment of Multiple Personality Disorder. New York:Guilford

Spiegel, D. (1993). Dissociative Disorders: A Clinical Review. Lutherville, MD: Sidran Press.

Ross, Colin (1997). Dissociative Identity Disorder: Diagnosis, Clinical Features and Treatment (Second Edition). New York: John Wiley & Sons.

Russell, D. E. (1984). Sexual Exploitation: Rape, Child Sexual Abuse, and Sexual Harassment. Beverly Hills: Sage van der Kolk, B. (1987). Ed. Psychological Trauma. New York: American Psychiatric Press

 

Religion & Sexual Trauma:

Boswell, John (1980).  Christianity, Social Tolerance, and Homosexuality.  Chicago: The University of Chicago Press.

Frieberg, N. & Laaser, M. (1998). Before the Fall: Preventing Pastoral Sexual Abuse.  Collegeville, MN: The Liturgical Press.

Hopkins, N. (1998). The Congregational Response to Clergy Betrayls of Trust.Collegeville, MN: The Liturgical Press.

Horst, E. (1998). Shame-Healing for Victims of Clergy Sexual Abuse. Collegeville, MN: The Liturgical Press.

Laaser, M (1996).  Faithful & True: Sexual Integrity in a Fallen World.  Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan Pubishing House.

Levine, Judith, (2002). Harmful to minors: the perils of protecting children from sex. University of Minnesota Press: Minneapolis, MN.

Rossetti, S. (1996).  A Tragic Grace: The Catholic Church and Child Sexual Abuse. Collegeville, MN: The Liturgical Press.

 

Resources for Men:

Nice, S. & Forrest, R. (1990).  Childhood Sexual Abuse: A Survivor’s Guide for Men. USA: Hazeldon Educational Materials

Lee, John (1987).  The Flying Boy: Healing the Wounded Man. Deerfield Beach, FL: Health  Communications, Inc.

 

Resources for Women:

Ackerman, R. (1989).  Perfect Daughters: Adult Daughters of Alcoholics. Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

Adams, K. (1991). Silently Seduced: When Parents make their Children Partners.  Deerfield  Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

de Castillejo, I.C. (1973).  Knowing Woman: A feminine Psychology. Boston, MA: Shambhala Publications

Dowling, C. (1988). Perfect Women: Hidden fears of inadequacy and the drive to perform. New York, NY: Summit Books.

Dowling, C. (1981).  The Cinderella complex: Women’s hidden fear of independence. New York, NY: Summit Books.

Frankel, Lois (1992).  Women, Anger & Depression: Strategies for Self Empowerment. Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

Hillel, Rachel (1997).  The Redemption of the Feminine Erotic Soul. York Beach, ME: Nicholas-Hays, Inc.

Kasl, Charlotte (1999). If the Budda Dated: A Handbook for finding Love in a Spiritual Path. New York, NY: Penguin Putnam Inc

Kasl, Charlotte (1992) Many Roads, One Journey: Moving Beyond the 12 Steps.  New York: NY: HarperCollins.

Kasl, Charlotte (1989) Women Sex and Addiction.  New York: NY: Harper & Row, Inc.

Weiss, W. & DeBusk, D. (1993).  Women who Love Sex addicts: Help for healing from the effects of a relationship with a sex addicts. Fort Worth, TX: Discovery Press.

Zweig, C., (Ed) (1990).   To be a Woman: The birth of the conscious  feminine. New York, NY: St. Martin’s Press.

 

 Self & Recovery Issues:

Golumb, E. (1992).  Trapped in the mirror: Adult Children of Narcissists in their struggle for self.  New York, NY: Wm Morrow & Company, Inc.

 

Self Help Resources:

Glasser, G. (1976).  Positive Addiction.  New York: NY: Harper & Row.

Kasl, Charlotte (1992) Many Roads, One Journey: Moving Beyond the 12 Steps.  New York: NY: HarperCollins.

 

Sexual Abuse and Recovery:

Bear, E. & Dimock, P. (1988).  Adults Molested as Children: A survivor’s manual for Women & Men.Orwell, VT: Safer Society Press.

Landry, D. B. (1991).  Family Fallout: A handbook for families of adult sexual abuse survivors. Orwell, VT: Safer Society Press.

 

Sexual Anorexia:

Carnes, P. (1997).  Sexual Anorexial: Overcoming Sexual Self-HatredCenter City, MN:  Hazeldon.

 

Sex Education:

Klein, M. (2002). Sexual Intelligence: Politics, Culture, the Media and Sex. Palo Alto, CA: SexEd Press.

Leveresque, R. J. (2000). Adolescents, Sex and the Law: Preparing Adolescents for responsible citizenship. Washington, DC: American Psychological Association Press

Levine, J. (2002). Harmful to Minors: The Perils of Protecting Children from Sex. Minneapolis: University of Minnesota Press.

Taverner, W. J. (2002). Taking sides: Clashing Views on Controversial Issues in Human Sexuality. Gilford, CT: McGraw-Hill/Dushkin.

 

Sex Therapy & Treatment:

Cabaj. R. P., & Stein, T. S. (Eds). (1996). Textbook of homosexuality and mental health. Washington, DC:American Psychiatric Press

Camphausen, R. C. (1999). The Complete Encyclopedia of Sacred Sexuality. Rochester, VT: Inner Traditions

       International.

Colona, S. (2000). The Secrets to Pleasuring a Woman. Hollywood, FL:Frederick Fell Publishers.

Copeland, R. (1997). 100 Ways to make Sex Sensational. Hollywood, FL: Lifetime Books, Inc.

Cornett, C. (Ed.),  (1993). Affirmative dynamic psychotherapy with gay men. Northvale, NJ: PA: Jason Aronson, Inc.

Dieda, David (1995).  Intimate Communion: Awakening Your Sexual Essence. Deerfield Bch, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

Dworkin, S. H., & Guiterrez, F. J. (Eds.). (1992). Counseling gay men and lesbians: Journey to the end of the rainbow. Alexandria, VA: American Counseling Association.

Falco, K. L. (1991). Psychotherapy with lesbian clients: Theory into practice.  New York: Brunner/Mazel Publishers.

Foley, S. Kope, S. A., & Sugrue, D. P. (2002). Sex Matters for Women: A Complete Guide to Taking Care of Your Sexual Self. New York: Guilford Press.

Hatcher, R. A., Colestock, S. Pluhar, E. I., & Thrasher, C. (2001). Sexual etiquette 101 & more. Dawsonville, GA: Bridging the Gap Communications, Inc.

Kaplan, H. S. (1974). The New Sex Therapy: Active Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions. Leviitown, PA: Brunner/Mazel.

Kaplan, H. S. (1987). Sexual Aversion, Sexual Phobias, and Panic Disorder. New York, NY: Brunner/Mazel.

Kaschak, E. & Tiefer, L. (Eds). (2001). A New View of Women’s Sexual Problems.  New York, NY:The Hayworth Press, Inc.

Kuriansky, J. (2002). The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Tantric Sex. Indianapolis, IN: Alpha Books

Leiblum, S. A. & Sachs, J. (2002). Getting the Sex you Want: A Woman’s Guide to Becoming Proud, Passionate, and Pleased in Bed. New York: Crown Publishers.

Levy, H. & Ishihara, A. (1989).  The Tao of Sex. (3rd Revised Edition). Lower Lake, CA: Integral Publishing.

Masters, W.H.,  Johnson, V.E. & Kolodny, R.C. (1994). Heterosexuality. New York: Gramercy Books.

Paulson, G. L. (1996). Kundalini and the Chakras: A Practical Manual. St. Paul, MN: Llewellyn Publications.

Reid, D. P. (1989). The Tao of Health, Sex, & Longevity: A Modern Practical Guide to the Ancient Way. New York, NY: Simon & Schuster.

 Saraswati, S. & Avinasha, B. (1996). Jewel in the Lotus: The Tantric Path to Higher Consciousness. Vally Village, CA: Sunstar Publishing, Ltd.

Scantling, S. R. (1998). Extrordinary Sex Now: A Couple’s Guide to Intimacy.  New York, NY: Doubleday Dell Publishing Group, Inc.

Savage, L. F. (1999). Reclaiming Goddess: The Power of the Feminine Way. Carlsbad, CA: Hay House, Inc.

Stein, D. S. & Westoff, L. A. (2000). Passionate Sex: Discover the Special Power in You. New York: Carrol & Graf Publishers, Inc.

Weeks, G. R.,  & Gambescia, N. (2000). Erectile Dysfunction: Integrating Couple Therapy, Sex Therapy, and Medical Treatment. New York, NY: W. W. Norton & Co.

Westheimer, R. K. & Lopater, S. (2002). Human Sexuality: A Psychosocial Perspective. Philadelphia, PA: Lippincott Williams & Wilkins.

Wincze, J. P. & Carey, M. P. (2001). Sexual Dysfunction: A guide for assessment and treatment. Guilford Press: New York.

Wiseman, J. (1996). SM 101: A Realistic Introduction. San Francisco: Greenery Press.

 

Sexual Customs/Sociological Perspectives:

Betzig, L. L. (1986). Despotism and Differential Reproduction: A Darwinian View of History.  Aldine De Gruyter.

Birkhead, T. R. (2000). Promiscuity: An Evolutionary History of Sperm Competition. Boston: Harvard University Press.

Bright, Susan (1997) The Sexual State of the Union.  New York, NY: Simon & Schuster.

Buss, D. M. (1994). The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating.  New York: BasicBooks

Evans, N. J., & Wall, V. A. (1991).  Beyond Tolerance: Gays, lesbians, bisexuals, on campus. Lanham, MD: American College Personnel Association.

Levine, Judith, (2002). Harmful to minors: the perils of protecting children from sex. University of Minnesota Press: Minneapolis, MN.

Levy, H. & Ishihara, A. (1989).  The Tao of Sex. (3rd Revised Edition). Lower Lake, CA: Integral Publishing.

Offit, A. (1995).  The Sexual Self: How Character Shapes Sexual Experience (Revised Ed.). Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson, Inc.

Symons, D. (1979)  The Evolution of Human Sexuality.  NY: Oxford University Press.

Tannhill, R. (1992).  Sex in history. London: Scarborough House.

Wright, Robert. (1994).  The Moral Animal: The New Science of Evolutionary Psychology. New York: Pantheon Books.

 

Sex Offender Treatment:

Blanchard, G. 1998).  The Difficult Connection: The therapeutic Relationship in Sex Offender treatment. Brandon, Vermont: The Safer Society Press.

Elliott, M. (1993). Female Sexual Abuse of Children. New York: Guilford Press.

Knopp, F. H. (1985). The Youthful Sexual Offender: The Rationale and Goals of Early Intervention and Treatment. Brandon, VT: Safer Society Press.

Laaser, M (1996).  Faithful & True: Sexual Integrity in a Fallen World.  Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan Pubishing House.

Rosenberg, M. (1999). Understanding, Assessing, & Treating Sexual Offenders: Tools for the Therapist. Rosenberg & Troy, MI:Associates.

 

Spirituality & Religious Issues:

Booth, L. (1991).  When God becomes a drug: Breaking free of the chains of religious addiction & Abuse. New York: NY: Putnam Books.

Glasser, G. (1976).  Positive Addiction.  New York: NY: Harper & Row.

Helminiak, D. A. 1996). The Human Core of Spirituality: Mind as Psyche and Spirit. New York:State University of New York Press.

Levine, Judith, (2002). Harmful to minors: the perils of protecting children from sex. University of Minnesota Press: Minneapolis, MN.

May, G. G. (1988).  Addiction and grace: Love & Spirituality in the healing of addictions. New York, NY: HarperCollins Publishers.

Kasl, Charlotte (1999). If the Budda Dated: A Handbook for finding Love in a Spiritual Path. New York, NY: Penguin Putnam Inc.

Kasl, Charlotte (1992) Many Roads, One Journey: Moving Beyond the 12 Steps.  New York: NY: HarperCollins.

Kavanaugh, P. (1992).  Magnificent Addiction: Discovering Addiction as Gateway to Healing. Santa Rosa, CA: Aslan Publishing.

Muller, W. (1997).  How, Then, Shall WE Live?  Four Simple Questions that Reveal the Beauty and Meaning of Our Lives.  New York, NY: Bantam Books.

Piazza, M. (1994). Holy homosexuals: the truth about being gay and Christian.  Dallas, TX: Sources of Hope Publishing House.

Picucci, Michael (1998). The Journey Toward Complete Recovery: Reclaiming your Emotional, Spiritual & Sexual Wholeness.  Berkeley, CA: North Atlantic Books.

Spong, J. S. (2000). What the Bible Really says about Homosexuality. New Mexico: Alamo Square Press.

Ulrich Tobias, Cynthia, (1999). You can't make me, but I can be persuaded: Strategies for bringing out the best in your strong-willed child. Watermark Press: Colorado Springs, Co.

 

STI/HIV Issues:

Kain, C. D. (1996).  Positive: HIV affirmative counseling.  Alexandria, VA: American Counseling Association

Kalichman, S. C. (1996).  Answering your questions about AIDS.  Wathington, DC: American Psychological Association.

Levine, Judith, (2002). Harmful to minors: the perils of protecting children from sex. University of Minnesota Press: Minneapolis, MN.

Martelli, L. J., Peltz, F. D., Messina, W., & Petrow, S. (1993).  When someone you know has AIDS: A practical guide.  New York: Crown Trade Paperbacks.

 

Sexual Trauma Aftermath:

Bear, E. & Dimock, P. (1988).  Adults Molested as Children: A survivor’s manual for Women & Men.Orwell, VT: Safer Society Press.

Elliott, M. (1993). Female Sexual Abuse of Children. New York: Guilford Press.

Estrada, H. (1994). Recovery for Male Victims of Child Sexual Abuse. Sante Fe, NM: Red Rabbit Press.

Evans, P. (1992). The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize it and How to Respond. Holbrook,Mas s: Adams Media Corp.

Farmer, S. (1989). Adult Children of Abusive Parents. New York: Ballantine Books.

Gartner, R. B. , Ed., (1997). Memories of  Sexual Betrayal.: Truth Fantasy, Repression and Dissociation. North Bergen, NJ: Book-Mart Press.

Gil, E. (1996). Treating Abused Adolescents. New York: Guilford Press.

Golumb, E. (1992).  Trapped in the mirror: Adult Children of Narcissists in their struggle for self.  New York, NY: Wm Morrow & Company, Inc.

Levine, Judith, (2002). Harmful to minors: the perils of protecting children from sex. University of Minnesota Press: Minneapolis, MN.

McCann, J. T. (2001). Stalking in Children and Adolescents: The Primitive Bond.  Washington DC.: American Psychological Association Press.

Miller, T. W. (ed.). (1988). Children of Trauma: Stressful Life Events and their effects on children  and adolescents. Madison, CT: International Universities Press.

Nice, S. & Forrest, R. (1990).  Childhood Sexual Abuse: A Survivor’s Guide for Men. USA: Hazeldon Educational Materials.

Sullivan, D. & Everstine, L. (1989). Sexual Trauma in Children and Adolescents: Dynamics and Treatment. New York: Brunner/Mazel.

Tollefson, W.B. (!997).   Separated from the light: A path back from psychological trauma. Melbourne, FL: Inner Values, Inc.

  

Women’s Issues:

Ackerman, R. (1989).  Perfect Daughters: Adult Daughters of Alcoholics. Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

Adams, K. (1991). Silently Seduced: When Parents make their Children Partners.  Deerfield  Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

de Castillejo, I.C. (1973).  Knowing Woman: A feminine Psychology. Boston, MA: Shambhala Publications

Dowling, C. (1988). Perfect Women: Hidden fears of inadequacy and the drive to perform.  New York, NY: Summit Books.

Dowling, C. (1981).  The Cinderella complex: Women’s hidden fear of independence. New York, NY: Summit Books.

Frankel, Lois (1992).  Women, Anger & Depression: Strategies for Self Empowerment. Deerfield  Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc.

Hillel, Rachel (1997).  The Redemption of the Feminine Erotic Soul. York Beach, ME: Nicholas-Hays, Inc.

Kasl, Charlotte (1999). If the Budda Dated: A Handbook for finding Love in a Spiritual Path. New York, NY: Penguin Putnam Inc

Kasl, Charlotte (1992) Many Roads, One Journey: Moving Beyond the 12 Steps.  New York: NY: HarperCollins.

Kasl, Charlotte (1989) Women Sex and Addiction.  New York: NY: Harper & Row, Inc.

Leiblum, S. A. & Sachs, J. (2002). Getting the SexYou Want: A Woman’s Guide to Becoming Proud, Passionate,  and Pleased in Bed. New York: Crown Publishers.

Savage, L. F. (1999). Reclaiming Goddess: The Power of the Feminine Way. Carlsbad, CA: Hay House, Inc.

Weiss, W. & DeBusk, D. (1993).  Women who Love Sex addicts: Help for healing from the  effects of a relationship with a sex addicts. Fort Worth, TX: Discovery Press.

Zweig, C., (Ed) (1990).   To be a Woman: The birth of the conscious  feminine. New York, NY: St. Martin’s Press.